God made sure Sassy Smurf and I were in the hospital at the same time in 2011 so we could be friends for life. He chose someone exactly like me (except she's a lot nicer) - same interests, same sense of humor etc. so I wouldn't be scared. When the Word became flesh, He did the same thing - He came as a baby. Babies need to be held. No one's going to be scared of a baby.